My 19 year old son just got a house with his girlfriend and their baby. He is always doing drugs and alcohol, getting into violence, and sending nudes to young children! He even cussed me out over the phone! I will be visiting him soon but what should I do to him?
ez2tock2
He is going to have BIGGER Problem than Not Getting along with his Mom.
When he does... He'll come looking for you.
Decide what you should do then.
TOUGH LOVE is not easy. It's needed.
ken
Honestly , you could leave him alone , rat him out or whatever .. but because he doesn’t live under your roof anymore he doesn’t have to follow your orders like he used to . Whatever he does is on him because he’s old enough to know right from wrong .. however you can try talking to him one on one , if that doesn’t work you have no other choice but to let him do him .
Anonymous
During my visit I would be taking photos/video and then calling the police and/or CPS.
I would also be looking into what I would need to do in order to qualify as foster parent of my grandchild.
The Football God
If you haven't made a good impression now, It ain't happening. Good luck and tell him ,life is now about your child.