Girls: Can you help me?

I've been going out with my girlfriend for a few months and she's the sweetest girl ever. During the summer she sometimes wears crop tops and matching skirts because they're cute and fashionable. My grandparents and aunt & uncle were over at our house and she stopped by & it was a day she had one of her crop top outfits on and I could tell from the first moment she was really embarrassed about it. A few times she tried to pull her top down to cover some skin & she told mad afterwards she felt like a slut in front of my grandparents. I know this might be weird, but I found it so HOT that she was showing off some skin around my family. Is this weird of me? I hope she isn't a slut for doing this?

Anonymous2019-07-30T14:02:48Z

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Different people have different comfort level as to how much skin the expose and as to whom they expose to. Your girlfriend is not a slut but only felt like a slut for exposing too much skin in front of her girlfriend's family.
Although I may be wrong, perhaps you didn't find the exposure to be uncomfortable since it was around your family and you are comfortable to express yourself around them. Or perhaps you are just used to exposing more skin compared to your girlfriend. Your girlfriend, on the other hand, may have felt awkward to be in front of grownups who are related to someone she knows.
Whatever the reason is, you should respect how she feels and not push her to expose her skin when she feels uncomfortable.