Girls: Can you help me?

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I'm a 22 year old girl in college and I have been dating my boyfriend for about two years. I got two tattoos before I had met him, and he doesn't like tattoos. I have been wanting this tattoo on my ribs for awhile now, but have hesitated to get it since he doesn't like them. Well, my birthday is in a couple weeks and he surprised me with this letter saying that for my birthday he made an appointment for me at the tattoo studio I like and he is going to treat me to the tattoo I have been wanting. He said he loves seeing me happy and how happy tattoos make me, and said the only condition was that he gets to hold my hand and admire how beautiful I am when I get it put on. What do you think about this?

Shakespeare · Accepted Answer

You know I will never understand why people ask questions here that deal with their personal preferences. The only thing that matters is how you perceive it. Is it sweet? Thoughtful? Loving? Or do you think it's weird? Clingy? Awkward?

There is a theory that says people will perceive the exact same gesture differently depending on who is doing it. If you love him you'll probably think it's cute and thoughtful. If you don't love him it'll probably be weird.

Personally, if he is doing something you know he dislikes but does it to make you happy. He clearly wants the best for you regardless of his opinions. That's a good partner.

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Its kinda weird

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