there a girl i like online i write her every day. she does not seem to mind. i like her but i don't know how she feels about me. should i not write her for a few days? to see if she writes me first. i just don't want her to think not im not not interested in her anymore.
what do you guys think i should do?
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Where do you think writing to this girl is going to get you? If she's long distance, move on. If she's local ask her out on a date.
I don't know about anyone else, but i can't stand it when a guy texts and messages me half to death.
ez2tock2
Online/Social Media is for PRACTICE in Communication and Conversation. If she Scares you and you haven't even met her...
you are going to SUCK as companionship for her in person.
WHY ARE YOU AFRAID OF A STRANGER?? She may not even be a girl. There are LOTSA Liars online.
Don't mean to rain on your parade, but you need to know OR be ready for this:
You can be infatuated, entertained, comforted and less lonely by someone you have "never" met face to face (in person), but NOT Love.
Too many "unknown" facts.
Online and Texting… You have a PEN PAL relationship… NOT Love relationship.
Example: I HAD A MEXICAN FRIEND who was taking English classes 3 times a week. There was this blonde Russian girl in the class with him. He was so deeply in LOVE with her, that he would go to these classes even if he was dead tired. He wanted to see her so bad each week, but was too scared to ever talk to her. Partly because of his English and mostly because she was a Beautiful Blonde Russian GIRL. On the last day of classes they had a little banquet. He finally got up the nerve to say something to her. He goes to her "scared to death" and says "Hi". She was a very nice and sweet girl. She smiled BIG and said HI back. She had the worst breath he had ever smelled on a person and his interest in her dropped like an anchor in the deep sea. Point is: There are things you can't know about a person just by looking at them or talking to them online or text or phone or mail. It's called JUDGING A BOOK BY ITS COVER. Most of the time, you're gonna find you F'ked up.
I HAVE THIS OTHER FRIEND:
I have a friend who fell in love with this attractive girl.
She has a nice body, looks, smile and personality.
A REAL DREAM GIRL.
She liked him too, but he was warned NOT to get too attached to her.
We all knew something about her, that you can’t see passed her
Sexy, Foxy, Eye Catching Beauty.
What We knew and He found out was that…
The Girl Lives Like A PIG. NO LIE.
Her car, her place and pretty much anything she touched...
she did not take care of or clean ANYTHING.
This IS NOT a Quality, anyone wants in a mate/partner (guy or girl).
WHATA SHAME.
Steve
Meet her.
If she’s not writing you, don’t write her. Maintain a balance.
If you can’t meet with her, consider her a penpal only.