My girlfriend is 23 and such a sweetheart. She is a kindergarten teacher and very strong in her faith. She is very elegant and is seen as a "good girl." The thing is, we go to Vegas for the weekend sometimes, and when we are there, she likes to let her hair down a little bit. She wears dresses that are shorter than she wears at home with higher heels and likes to find a nice lounge and drink an alcoholic beverage even though she never drinks at home. I think it's very hot. Why do you think she does this there and not at home?
Chad2019-08-27T04:39:36Z
She's always looking for a better deal. Its female nature. It used to be controlled to an extent but in a post-feminism world, women are free to exercise their hypergamous nature with no consequences.
Because her job requires professionalism while at home she can relax and let loose a little.
It's not a contradiction or anything: We all have a personal life and a professional life; few people actually get to merge the two so we always manage the two different perceptions we have with different groups of people.
The way we act on the street with friends Is not usually the same as we act in church or something.
Because she probably has no reason to at home. People typically go out because they want to have a good time. If you make a good time all the time then will it really be special when you go out and do it? Also she wears shorter dresses because she likes the attention from other guys/females. That s just how women are wired. Don t call her out about it or you re going to look super insecure and push her away. Also she s only 23, be careful in what you think she might be like now, because in a few short years she will change entirely, even if you don t think it will happen. Also fyi girls who seem the sweetest are typically more promiscuous, but you will NEVER see a hint of this unless you re an extremely good judge of character/have been around these types of people for a long time and know what to look for.