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If you value yourself no higher, make yourself available to whoever you wish
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It isn't good or bad, but it's going to cause problems within the family as long as you can live with that, it's fine.
John
Things like this change you, and the people around you. This decision could turn you into a completly different person then you are, or want to be. Ive known people that are in every catagory, i know how they got there, and the consequences they've paid for the decisions theyve made. People with the label of, whore, slut or easy, have been in many cases the most free, and happy people ive known. While at the same time, many are severely depressed, and have successfully committed suicide. All because they chose to do things that are socially taboo. My advice would be don't, you will be judged by things you do, not by things you never did.
Coach Simon
Sex might be fun obviously, as are drink and drugs no doubt, but outside of a strong and well established relationship it can turn out to be disastrous. Not only can pregnancy and STDs result, but sexual intercourse can often be emotionally bonding (especially if regular or frequent), and when the strong friendship, mutual values and interests etc. are not in place this can prove emotionally confusing. Just read some of the questions here, or watch some of the daytime t.v. shows with very unhappy people who have had sex too soon and/or with the wrong person. It can also cost a girl her self respect and the respect of others (including future boyfriends).
Murzy
use protection and it is ok