How long should a 34 yr old woman wait for marriage and pregnancy?

Please read all. Im not having a child without a husband/ man in the house. Ive dated guys for one month to one year to 10 years. How long should we court each other? My biological clock i feel is ticking!! I never been married. No kids never pregnant. I have been engaged more than once. The 3rd guy my fiancee proposed one month after meeting me, but cheated on me w his ex. And the other 2 was liars and cheaters.!!!. Im all about growth and maturity and integrity. It doesnt mean i dont lie sometimes we all makes mistakes. And do crazy stuff. But they lied way too much. Especially one got a girl pregnant and hid it from me.  It doesn't mean i have trust issues bc i dont. I can trust again.

Ricky2019-12-22T03:16:13Z

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Well why are you going for all the a ssholes. Cuz it's in your nature to get attracted to that.  Why not go for a tech geek who earn more than 150 k a year who is super nice. That's the one who will never let you go. Those are the ones who will be your husband. But it's all up to you it's your life.  

:)2019-12-22T03:04:23Z

If you don’t want a child enough to not take it into your own hands and just HAVE one (whether through adoption, sperm donation, etc) then that’s on you. I’m 22. I know I want to be married, but I also know I want children way more. If I’m not married by 35, I’m getting a kid whether I’m alone or not. Especially if I was having a hard time with dating. Men are not the solution to everything.

Otherwise, women are now having kids in their 40s. So you could wait another few years. But the longer you wait, the riskier it is.