Okay, I’m a male, but I’m like a female underneath.
I consider myself to be a male-lesbian, that is, I’m a male who is effeminate and dresses up like a female and has fantasies about being a female who does other females.I like to wear dresses or miniskirts whenever I dress up and go out in public with my girlfriend.My girlfriend thinks I’m kinda weird but is open minded and accepts me as I am.I could have a sex change but I want to keep my meat.Anyways, whenever we go out into public, people (mostly guys) point and laugh at me and tease me.What can I do to make them leave me alone?
How can I make them stop teasing me?
Anonymous2020-02-01T20:45:42Z
No one is born with instruction books. It is worth your while to network with cross dressers and trans people and also to read widely on this subject. Join some trans support groups. Get involved with the local gay community center. Maybe a pro lgbt meditation circle or church - I once had a trans pastor. There are men that transition to female and then live as lesbians. Also there are straight cross dressers. It takes 1) time and 2) education. Be your own best student. Love truth. Get involved with some of the types of groups I said. Also you check around the gay bars and find out which ones have drag nights on what nights - you could meet other men in drag and the people that like them. Don’t worry about rushing to figure it out - just enjoy the journey. Its ok if it takes a few years. You don’t say where you live. Being trans is hardest of all in the lgbt world - at least gays and lesbians can blend in public. If you live in a homophobic red state - or a homophobic part of a state - I advise you to move. Pick big city with a strong lgbt community. Pick a tolerant part of the country, seek out a blue state. You won’t cause such a stir. You still might be acosted, but their would also be more allies who would stick up for you too.
Straight male transvestite/crossdresser? Whatever you wanna call it, its nice of you to find an acceptabing partner. Thing is you cant stop the trolls. At best you can learn to refard it as background noise, or dress up in private rather then in public if it bothers you so much
stop dressing up like a woman and be glad your a man and have a girl friend who understands you. Save the dressing up for when your alone or just with her.