Contemporary women denial of submission?

OK so im autistic and adhd so this stuff flies over my head and is confusing and I also have a tendency to overthink.

So i've observed how women being submissive to there husbands was a common thing in the past, and now it is kinda faded away. But yet its still here, in a contemporary sense. Many women are still submissive to there wives, maybe not the same way but you can still see it happening at least subtely. So I see alot of women being "accomodating" to there wife, or in pop culture a man like kissing his wife to calm her down shes mad or something, which I find to be really sexist, you can just kiss someone when there mad at you, what if shes mad for a legit reason and hes like "oh ill just kiss her to calm this crazy ***** down." 

I fear talking about this with people as they will be like "stop will ur being offensive you ened to watch what you say" or the "no im not submissive its just accomadation its not ur confused will u dont get it" or someting. it sucks cuz they are like super ******* on me about that whcih is perosnal and i wont get into. 

So are contemproary, or modern era women submissive and in denial bout it (2000s,2010s,2020s), women my age (19) teenage girls and older women (20-30) middler age (30-40) are all include

Foofa2020-02-13T16:28:12Z

In most pairings there's a dominant personality. But this doesn't have to mean the non-dominate personality is a shrinking violet. People bring their own strengths and weaknesses to relationships and ideally they mesh together to where one partner can pick up the slack in an area the other partner can't. This is true regardless of the genders of those involved.

n2mama2020-02-13T14:10:53Z

No. Your assumptions are wrong.

SexiLexi2020-02-13T13:00:15Z

why ask why..what do u stand to gain by asking such a confusing question. If i wanna be kind and not nagging to my hubs, whats so wrong with that. why we gotta call it submissing? help me to help you!

chris n2020-02-13T08:31:18Z

It takes generations for change to happen naturally. The old days when men automatically ruled everything and women kept quiet and submissive has been changing slowly since roughly the 60s. It will take many many more decades for those days to be long forgotten. Women got the vote (some women) in the 1920s. They still do not have equal pay a century later. Regarding your actual question, there are variations of behaviour of both men and women at the moment.

Anonymous2020-02-13T07:29:48Z

The truth is that you don't know what goes on in the minds of people or what actually motivates them to behave the way they do. I think you are making a big mistake assuming you do.

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