Is everything really a competition? then why do humans seem to scuffle over any and everything, even the smallest of things?
People fight literally over anything. Someone makes a comment that hurts their frail feelings they immediately backlash. Someone likes a certain decoration and just because the other person doesn't like it, it must be obligated for criticism. If there is left overs people will jump over it and barge with each other. Not only that but people literally try to force feelings onto each other. If someone likes someone they might coerce the other individual into reciprocating those feelings back even if said other person doesn't want anything to do with the obsessor. I personally have come to the conclusion that humans are irrational. If you can change my mind, which is nearly impossible given all the empirical evidence of human unreasonability, I'd like to see it.