Why is it that woman ask how was the other when you cheat on them?

I know that the woman probably wants the man to reflect and re asses if that cheating was worth it. Logically speaking it makes more sense for the woman to say was it worth it? It is not like by asking how was she that a woman is looking for information to improve her bedroom skills. It is unlikely that at the moment of a affair a woman is asking because she is interested in a 3 some with the other woman. It is not like the pain from the cheating would be reduced if the other woman is inferior in bed. 

Anonymous2020-05-27T10:20:32Z

Being cheated on puts anyone into a highly emotional state. Therefore, they are not likely to use logic when they feel that way. Maybe a part of it is a masochistic self-blame that some women feel when they're cheated on. Or maybe it's because they're angry and want to know if the man really thought it was worth cheating to lose his girl. People, men and women, tend to act and speak irrationally in those situations.

wind_updoll2020-05-27T09:22:49Z

Not all do. It depends on whether they’re feeling jealousy or envy first, to determine who they’re going to lash out at - the partner, or the other person