How to say this in English?

My life is now ''settled'', I know I cant study abroad since im married. I cant go drinking and partying since im married.

But the good side is I feel like Im ''settled.'' I have my own car, my own house, my own family. I dont need to go looking for girls.

Is settled the right term? 
Whats the right word or sentence?

charlatan2020-06-05T04:12:26Z

many people feel, much later in life
sense of settled, has in fact most unsettling experience
that one has/had gone through.

sunshine_mel2020-06-04T13:29:03Z

Settled is fine, if that's how you feel