I feel like I’m cursed. I’ve been treated like trash so many times by people I like romantically. I’m 23 and have never had a steady relationship. The “relationships” I’ve been in only lasted a few weeks and then that’s it. It’s not like I’m boring. It’s not like I’m unattractive. I sing karaoke and I’m pretty damn good at it. And I play guitar, go on hikes, I do a lot of fun stuff but girls just don’t seem to vibe with me for some reason. I hate to sound stubborn or arrogant but most of the falling outs I’ve had with girls feels like it’s more on their part and not mine. Seriously. I’m cool, I do things, and I put a lot of heart into everything I do but no girl seems to care. I’m so frustrated because I know that I’m going to make some girl very happy one day but how many times do I have to get my heart stomped on to get there?
Anonymous2020-07-08T08:27:49Z
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You might just have a unique personality that requires a unique personality to match with you. It doesn’t really help that so many girls act the same nowadays so it’s not very shocking that none of them would click with you. You need someone special. I know a guy at work that has also never had luck with women and they always break up with him in the first couple weeks too. He just help saying “Girls don’t like me” That’s cause he hadnt met me yet lol. We actually have a connection and both like each other and get along well. He told me that I’m the first girl he’s felt like he gets along with. And i feel the same way towards him. We are both freaking unusual but awesome personalities and we just GET each other. So there is someone out there for everyone. I believe everyone has their match out there somewhere. You’ve just got to find them. Maybe stop trying so hard looking for a girl and let a girl come to you. She’s out there somewhere. The fun part is not knowing when you will meet her.
Well what’s the reason your relationships are failing? Is there something you’re doing that they didn’t like? Have they ever said “you’re boring” or “you’re rude”? In life you need to learn from your mistakes, dating is a part of that, no girl wants to be with a guy that fu*cks up and repeats it
You are trying to hard with women. You follow me? You dont need to buy a chick a million things or take a chick on a million hikes in the wilderness to get her to like you.
Just do what the men who get lucky with women do; be an asszhole to women and give them good sex.
And for f1ck sake, stop taking advice from women about women. Women lie and mislead when it comes to dating advice.
Seriously dude, just try being an asszhole and push harder for sex. P.S., be sure to not give up on women. Irregardless of whether your luck with them increases or decreases with them.
EDIT: Oh, a thumbs down? Well keep on doing the same dumb schit you've been doing with women then. Maybe "it will work itself out" and "the right one will find you"...
I'm also 23 years old and single since birth but I think I'm not too ugly, I have friends who liked me and but still I'm single by choice. Back then in college I think that Love will come in the right time and now I also think the same just that the time is still not right. Don't rush and just enjoy your life. The right one might just be around the corner or you will meet her in future. You can focus on building yourself first.
You will get better at it. Don't believe in pick up artists or nonsense like that. I didn't lose my viriginity until I was 27. Sex is way overated. Don't believe guys who brag after sleeping with hot girls. I've been in relationships with very pretty girls, but the sex was just okay. To me, sex is more like exercise with ejaculation.