Is it okay to complement a older woman on her feet even if she thinks they are not in great shape?
I’m currently 27 going on 28 and willing to date an older woman but I want to complement them on their feet with pretty or dry or cracked or dirty or undone. I want the older lady to know the she will be loved and cared for no matter the situation. I prefer 45-60 (cougars or matures or GILFs) at the current moment. But I am also afraid to approach them. Is this a wrong way to think or do I need to seek mental stability and help right away?
Anonymous2020-08-12T22:02:22Z
I don't think it's wrong to like older women as long as it's not just because you fetishise them if you see older woman as a soil sexual being and sexualise them just because of their age you should not even try and talk to them and keep it out of your mind, maybe talk to a professional for that if you can't control yourself. But complimenting on someones feet will prob make them very uncomfortable unless you know for sure they're comfortable with it no matter the age or gender.It uhm probably isn't the most efficient way of showing they will be loved in general. And I would 100% suggest to not ever say that to a woman you don't know if that was what you were planning.
It should not sound like a lie as does not appear sincere. It could be taken as ridicule. Instead, look for her best feature(s). Hair, eyes, skin, what she is wearing, intelligence, or anything that may be an exaggeration, but at least is recognized as a true compliment. Your personal preferences are whatever they are. This is between adults.