Can I have some guy help?

I’m a 21 year old girl and I have been seeing this 28 year old guy. The thing is, he has a Masters degree, is a special education teacher, and is a complete gentleman. I, on the other hand, only have a high school diploma and work as an assistant manager at Justice in a mall. He treats me like a queen. We were talking one day and he said he had always wanted to get his ears pierced because he has never done anything like that in his life and always admired people who had piercings and tattoos. I talked him into letting me pierce his ears at the store one day. Oh my gosh. When he got them done and seen them in the mirror for the first time, he had the biggest smile ever and his face was as red as a tomato. He absolutely loved them! Well, today, he told me that I am the most amazing girl he has ever known and having pierced ears is the first time in his life he has ever felt “attractive.” Do you think this guy is boyfriend material? 

T J2020-10-14T08:41:37Z

Sure, why not? Men usually do not care about what job you do. Go with it, go on a date if he asks. What do you have to lose? Do not lower yourself, you work a honest job. Maybe one day, if you want you can go to college, if you want, but that's on you to decide. So, if he asks you out, go, forget about who has better job, education. He knows where you work, it does not seem to bother him.

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Anonymous2020-10-14T04:03:06Z

I definitely think he is! The most important thing when getting into a relationship with someone is that you share an emotional connection with the person who you are with. Superficial factors, such as university degrees, age, appearance etc, are all irrelevant because they don't contribute anything meaningful to the relationship. From what you are saying, you seem to have a great chemistry with this guy to the extent that an emotional connection is being formed. With that being said, I would take things slow until you are completely sure that he is the one for you. I really hope this helps :)

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Phillip2020-10-14T03:53:50Z

umm.. so far yes, i see why not. just make sure youre ready to be with him and you feel comfortable. 

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