if sexual orientation isn't a choice then why do some straight people turn gay and some gay people turn straight?

oldprof2020-10-21T17:10:13Z

It's clear.  Often gay people hide their gayness by going through the motions and behaviors of straight people.  But then, as they mature, they give in to their true nature and "come out."

I've seen happily married couples with kids where one of the partners eventually comes out and leaves the marriage.  The latest was where the wife left her husband to take up with another woman.  As a couple they had three kids and the wife bore all three of them.

But she was gay.

Anonymous2020-10-21T12:53:43Z

What is called "turning" is actually a misnomer. Turning is not what's taking place. Actually the person is just trying to be one way which they aren't. Because they're really opposite. Finally they just realise it and give up which is what people mistakenly call "turning" but it isn't. But now, that said, some people will always be bi and can do either.

Anonymous2020-10-20T23:35:13Z

i was straight then i turned gay and i can tell you this, you like apple but you don't like orange, neither by your choice, you just find yourself this way

Anonymous2020-10-19T23:09:46Z

They are called Bisexuals 

choko_canyon2020-10-19T22:29:47Z

They don't 'turn gay' or 'turn straight', they simply realize what it is they've always been and didn't know.

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