He’s attracted to me but doesn’t want a relationship?

He’s highly attracted to me. He called me stunningly beautiful and hot. He tried to kiss me. He touches his private area and face a lot whenever I go near him and he’s even said he’d **** me and that he knows I could get any guy I wanted. On top of that he also has called me a “nice person” and when I asked if it’s just that we’re not compatible he said no that’s not the issue at all but that he’s really weird & ****** up and has tried everything to get better and wants to even move somewhere where nobody knows his name/anything about him.
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justjeans7772020-11-07T01:42:22Z

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Sounds like he has problems that have nothing to do with you. Don't try to change him, listen to what he says and believe it. Find someone else....trust me this relationship won't end well and you will be wasting your time. Find someone that doesn't use you for sex, find someone honorable and find someone that shares your values. Also, try to wait to have sex. I know I know, but this old logic is actually true. Women produce oxytocin much more than men, especially after sex. Oxytocin is the bonding hormones or love hormone. Sex for women is so much more than physical for us so don't just make it easy for them to get. Make them work for it and don't do it until you know they want to stick around for the long haul. Best wishes!

Anonymous2020-11-06T10:00:33Z

It seems he watches too much porn. Based on his behavior, I think you should stay away.

Cherry Lu2020-11-06T06:23:53Z

he is gay or bisexual. he is confused. been with guys like that. Mr. Hide your a homosexual.

?2020-11-04T20:03:39Z

I hate to stay this but...stay the **** away from him. He's clearly delusional and he isn't worth of having as a bf anyway. I hope you find someone better.😯😊

SW-62020-11-04T18:57:37Z

If a man wants to be with you, in a relationship, with the hope that things will work out and the two of you will become one, he is going to move heaven and earth to make that happen.  If more people would just see things clearly from the start it will save them a lot of time and heartache.  This guy is feeding you all kinds of lines to keep you hanging on.  He wants to sleep with you and that is all.  He is setting you up to join the "harem" of all the other women he has said the same garbage to so that they will be always wondering if this could be the guy, he  kinda likes me, etc.  He will only call on you when he wants sex or attention.  If this is the life you want with a man, stay and put up with all his mess and God Bless you both.  If you want a meaningful loving one on one relationship with a good man who will do you right from the start, leave this guy alone and get back to working on you and your life, not anyone elses.  You deserve better and life is too damn short.  Good luck to you :)

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