Honestly I'm just a chill laid back guy that is romantic and really do like her but I know that I cant make her my focus because then she will leave me.
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Hon, she has already "left" you, if not physically, certainly emotionally. Stop calling her your girlfriend and move on.
Glass
Sounds like she is going to leave you anyway. She wants to date someone who isn't afraid to show her how they feel, you want to put in minimum effort and play games. It's only a matter of time before she loses patience with you or just meets someone more interesting.
Phillip
we'll being in a relationship already makes her your focus. so either you demote the relationship to FWB, or you take the risk and try to love her and have fun with her. you dont have to be the perfect guy, just make sure youre the guy that shes happy to be with. cause its nice to look the mcdonalds commerical, but eating some good old home made pasta is just as good when youre eating and tasting it