I caught a pathological liar. How to go about this? ?

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I have a growing business that I managed to make a good living from. To give back I decided to befriend someone who has a very small business. I shared my platform with them yet their business hardly grew. This friend then told me she had financial issues and could hardly sustain her family so I donated something small for the children. She then comes back and says her home will be foreclosed because she owes $1,400 mortgage. I advised her to get a job and not rely solely on her small business and she said she had health issues. I gave her words of encouragement and told her I would pray for her. 
My intuition told me she was lying so I did research. She made a gofundme posing with her children, asking her very small customers to donate. And asked me to share it on my large platform which I refused to put such burden on my supporters when they too are living in a pandemic. A few days later she comes to me hysterically that one of her customers wished bad on her and her children and said they hoped her home got foreclosed. She was pretending to cry but I saw no tears. I spoke to my sister about her and my sister said in Texas foreclosures have been paused so she’s most likely lying. And she was indeed! I’m so disgusted by her and the extent she has gone to scam me and others.

She doesn’t know that I know she’s lying. She tried to contact me today but I haven’t respond.How should I go about this?She’s such a pathological liar I don’t want her to come after me for catching her

Anonymous · Answer

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T J · Answer

What she is doing is running scams on people. Report her to the police.

choko_canyon · Answer

Don't mention the lying. If you're right, and she's pathological about it, that will not have any desirable effect. Pathological liars barely admit to themselves that they're lying, and never admit it to others or are willing to face the consequences for their dishonesty. (There's a pathological liar in a position of leadership in our country right now, I'm sure you're familiar with him). Instead of confronting their dishonesty and calling out their lies and making them your enemy for life, try this: (In your own words of course). "I'm sorry you're going through so much right now, but I have my own problems and concerns and I can no longer help you financially or by using my business resources. Please do not ask me for any more assistance at this time, but know that I'm hoping things work out for you as well as possible. Stay healthy and safe, and I'm sure we'll see each other again when things get back to normal. Sincerely,....".  I hope it works out.

I caught a pathological liar. How to go about this? ?

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