Am I being too hard on him ? ?

Well we have been together for 11 years . He has cheated , I recently caught him on tinder . And he added one of his exes on Instagram. Well I forgave him but now like I am on edge. Anything he does makes me mad . I went off on him today ,  basically told him he sucked and regretted him . I feel terrible for saying all these mean things to him , but I just feel frustrated. I know it’s my fault because I am choosing to stay in this relationship. I really just want it to work out . 

T J2021-02-01T14:17:36Z

It is not going to change

Anonymous2021-02-01T01:59:38Z

he obviously isn’t gonna change, you deserve better. find someone else, leave him bum aśs

Seronyte2021-02-01T01:45:13Z

You feel bad, yet he's the one who cheated? I wonder what other manipulative behaviors he's been conditioning you to think is normal.

?2021-02-01T01:39:17Z

Once burned twice shy? If it happens again, if you find there is a pattern, then you'll have to decide whether you want to live with this or not. But without trust, no relationship will succeed. The best predictor of future behavior is past behavior.

Sad trump2021-02-01T01:39:03Z

Learn to be softer it’s better for health and others