Why is a formal wedding so important to girls?

Oh, c'mon. They start at the beginning marrying barbie dolls together. It's been conditioned into girls forever. It's the most special day of their lives next to giving birth and it's their day to be the special center of attention. They get to be as beautiful as they can be and as formally dressed up as possible with their father walking them to the man they love second and they get a ring that means they are the one that man loves and all should be well.

It a girl's dream to get married in Church/ formal. It is like a once in a lifetime experience and we totally deserve it!

First off, the girl will be dealing with you for a lifetime; the girl will give you a family/children; the girl will clean your house and make it a HOME; the girl will have to do laundry and cook for you; the girl is the main guardian of your children at school; the girl will be there for you 24 hours...

and what the girl wants should be granted as she wishes. BUT I know if she truly loves you, you and her can discuss the possibility of being conservative on your spending at the wedding. Since you are going to start as a new couple, you do not want CREDIT CARD COLLECTORS be calling you on your honeymoon or the first year of your marriage.