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Should she be upset on me?
My bestfriend worked in Iraq,he then decided to extend for a few days,he said his decision would be better for us but then i am very hesitant to accept his decisions coz i don't want to ever risk even a single day.I can't do anything but cry.He keeps on explaining to me that I just have to understand,then after he said sorry to me that he should have listened to me and realized that we should have then made the decisions together.Something bad happened to him in an accident.Me and him used to saved all our conversations then his sis read the part on which we were talking about this topic.Now she gets upset,maybe thinking that if not for me,his bro's decisions would have not been changed..But she doesn't know the details,merely relying on the conversations she had read.Now I feel lost.I am not the type who is so strong and can handle situations like people confrontations. But then i just get bothered the way his sis thinks of me.
6 Answers
- 2 decades agoFavorite Answer
Its rather difficult to advise you, just basing it on what was said by your posting.
1) At this difficult time, all party concern are going through emotional turmoil. Anger, sadness and a need to put a blame on someone. It is definitely easier to blame others as oppose to trying to put things in pespective.
2) You have other issues too, apart from the gossips you are about to face. Gossips are what people say, that may or may not be true. Trying to explain yourself is not going to be easy, cos you are the second party, and his sis is the third party. Staying firm will eventually clear your own conscience. How other think of you will change with time and as truth becomes apparent.
Best of Luck, The truth will set you free.
- 2 decades ago
his sister needs to mind her own the problem is between you and him. And he needs to start listening to some of your decisions and sayings as you listen to his. maybe you should tell her the truths so she doesn't rely on newspapers maybe confronting her would work better yet type it in the newspapers as a correction so she get a taste of her own medicine!
- Anonymous2 decades ago
I tried really hard to understand what you were asking, but just couldn't. I read it like 5 times and still don't get the situation. Please explain in a better manner on another question.
- HappyLv 52 decades ago
Don't worry about what his sister think of you just try to get yourself what you want to make you happy and let her say what she want. she need to get her some business and stay out of your. good luck
- 2 decades ago
Don't worry about what other people think of you. It's their problem. You know the truth.
- 2 decades ago
if the fact that shes upset does not have any bearing on the relationship between you and him i would not worry about because its not about her its about you two. you have worry about you and yours before someone else.
