i need some perspecitve?

i think you should at least try it out there and if you don't like it then go back with your mom. i use to live in Philly, pa and i moved a very small town in NC and at first i hated it, but now its home and i love it there. just give it a try, you might like it. good luck !!

I guess you are too young to get a job and support yourself so unless you can change her mind...

you could point out to her that moving there will be a big adjustment for both of you, leaving established friendships and lifestyle

especially it will disrupt your education

and it will actually be more difficult for you to adjust than for her.

Try it, you may enjoy the city. I moved from pure country to busy as h*ll city - It took me about a month to get used to it, but I'll never go back.

Go with mom! It's nice to have dad and mom in the same place!

well it depends...how old are you if ur like 12 den obviously u have to go but if ur like 16-18 im sure there should be another solution.

your mom can't make you do shi.t, if you don't want, besides it has to go before a custody judge and you have to agree and the judge must aprove it

i dont blame u if u r old enough then get out on your own and stay in cali.

life is all about change.....it's not the first, and won't be the last ,change in your life.....good luck