what the hell do i do?

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ok,here goes help
i have been in a relationship for 6 years,in the beginning my partner treat me really bad,he used to finish with me all the time and then contact me to get back together,during one of these splits i met up with my first love ,we got together when i was 15 and have kept in touch ever since(13 yrs)he told me he loved me and wanted to be with me,i tried to love him the same but i couldnt because i still loved partner no1 and i had found out i was pregnant,part no 1 wanted me back again,so i finished with 1st love even though he wanted to take baby on as his own but i went back to part no 1.Me and my current partner havent had sex or intimacy for over a year now,and i dont love him anymore,i think i really love my first love,i cant stop thinking about him,bear in mind i have been through alot of violence with current partner and hes never shown me any any affection,my first love is with someone and ive hurt him badly,ive made a total **** of everything help

saika · Accepted Answer

i thimk i can understand  why you went back to your current partner.  AT the end of the day, you dont love him anymore.  You must leave and stay single for yourself and see what you want to do in life.  Enjoy it rather than living your life for other people.  If your first love wants you back still take time out for urself.  If he's the one then he will understand and let you take your time.  Its the best way for you and your child.  Good luck

Anonymous · Answer

Well it's obvious what you need to do, firstly leave Partner No1 and be on your own for a while, this will give you time to figure out who you want (if any) you may only be feeling the way you do about "first love" as an excuse to get away from Partner no1. break away from both and be on your own, this will give you time to see if you do actually love either of them.
Good Luck

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