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After first date how often do you keep in touch?

Ive been out once with this guy,prior to that we spoke loads on the phone,i want to know/advice between now and the next date,how often is normal to text etc-dont want to come across too keen or not interested!!-Yes it sounds pathetic but you guys normally speak sense

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  • 1 decade ago
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    I'd say text wheneva u want, but just the once, if they don't reply straight off they may do after a week or two, sounds abit daft but I can take afew weeks to reply/ phone people and its not cos I dont like them (or I'd tel em and neva fone at all..) its just bein busy and taking ages to get round to it, but if u text then your sure he does have your number and just texting that one time (unless you have a reply and tex back of course) is really fine and non hassle . Sounds silly but myself I don't half go off people if they phone all the time - it annoys me, daft but it does. A couple of times at the start of a relationship then chill is very fine, makes you want them more and think about them .

  • 1 decade ago

    Why don't you wait for him to txt u first? That's what I usually do. If he doesn't for 3 days, you txt him and ask how is he and invent a stupid story what a funny thing had happened to you earlier that day and you thought it would be funny to tell him because on your last date you were talking about sth similar.

  • Anonymous
    5 years ago

    i think he probably is interested but doesnt want to come off too strong. the fact that he wants a second date shows that he is definitely interested, so I wouldnt be concerned too much. My boyfriend and I JUST started talking every day. it really depends on the guy.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    texting doesnt make u sound keen first of all. second of all u should call him when u wanna schedule a seond date =]

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    wait a week. if he hasnt phoned you phone him. there might have been a reason why he never phoned you and you dont want to sound stuck-up to think that you'll wait till he phones you

  • 1 decade ago

    Text him and tel him how much you enjoyed your date. If he is keen, he will return your call pronto.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    I lost touch, she went back home to Canada, I lost my first love, Bonnie.

  • 1 decade ago

    i think if somethings going on you automatically just get in touch with each other. why wait and play silly games.

  • 1 decade ago

    Call him right now. do what you think.

    people get caught up in this "time" thing and I would just do what you want!

  • zen522
    Lv 7
    1 decade ago

    As much as you feel comfortable with.

    Good Luck

    Source(s): I believe in talking and being straight forward You only lose if you don't take the chance.
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