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Someone for everyone?
Do you think there is a partner out there for everyone,i keep meeting total shits,im a genuine person,not ugly look after myself,got good job,own house etc and i only get asked out by people who want a one night stand or mess me about,im not that desperate to even go there-but im beginning to think there are no normal nice guys out there anymore,what the hell am i doing wrong???
im not needy ,im very independent,so i dont put people off that way,just thought id add that
21 Answers
- ?Lv 51 decade agoFavorite Answer
Hi Natalie.
Yes there are good guys out there. You just aint looking in the right places. Try changing your routine. do something different this week, travel by a different route, use a differnet shop, go to a play, anything different. Im sure there is a partner for you. good luck
- 1 decade ago
What is your definition of normal?
Men think about sex 24/7. It's their nature. I used to make lunch dates during work. I'd meet the guy somewhere close, have lunch with him. It's only an hour and it gives you enough time to figure out if he is a pig or not. Remember, you will never find a "normal" partner in a night club. They're all numb from alcohol and have no feelings. Another cool place to meet someone, is the grocery store. Go in the evening after work. Men usually hang around the meat counter, diary products, cereal, bread AND JUNK FOOD!. It's fun to flirt. You won't know unless you try. Besides, the best way to a man's heart is through his stomach.
- Anonymous1 decade ago
Hey have you noticed that Yahoo hasn't blocked your word shits. Does that mean is I put an S on all the rude words that they will get through?
If you want someone then there will always be someone for you.
Maybe you set your sights too high or expect too much from your choice. I may be a geriatric, sex mad, grumpy old man but I believe that I'm normal. What is a normal man or woman or is there any such thing. Anyway I don't see anything wrong with one night stands I've always accepted it as a compliment and said "yes" sex is for fun too. I've looked up genuine in the dictionary and I can't see that it could apply to a person. Have you ever met a fake person?
What is wrong with you is that you are a control freak, you want your partner to be what you feel comfortable with. Enjoy being alone I think that you will be that way some time.
- Anonymous1 decade ago
I do believe there is someone for everyone but also believe that the time has to be right for you both for this person to come into your life and maybe now is just not the right time for you. We all have to go through different experiences in life and I feel this is what is happening for you there is experiences and things you need to learn before your soul mate reaches you just like for him so that when you finally find the one you are both in the right place and space and have the experience and knowledge of life to make it work all what is happening now take each thing good or bad and put it down as the learning time don't worry when the time and you are right he will come into your life probably when your least expecting it good luck and keep learning.
- srracvueeLv 71 decade ago
your doing nothing wrong lovey as you say there are a lot of shits out there but Natilie there are also a lot of GOOD guys out there also you have been unlucky and you sound an ideal woman with credibility so I can only suggest try to go to nice parties and if you fancy someone , get someone to introduce you //thats important and who knows you might find the one that was meant for you. Good luck lovey you deserve to find a good man who will treat you right
- 1 decade ago
there is supposed to be a partner out there for you. i thought i had met my lifes partner but I was wrong. He left me after a long time together. I am told there are good guys out but I have to take the chance and get out there.You arent doing anything wrong, Just keep trying a nice place to meet nice men is at church> I have joined one. Go to the singles dances.Get out there and mingle.Good luck to you.
- 1 decade ago
there are many people for each person. Some work better than others. Christian churches draw people that have atleast a desire to do right and treat people right. And treat people as they would like to be treated. Just check one out with just that in mind. NO need to get in to all the ritualistic stuff. Big churches are better because you can kinda watch people. etc.
- 1 decade ago
you are not doing sth wrong but sometimes guys are really stupid!(you are not alone cause i think the same sometimes)!!!and in the question ''if there is a partner for everyone'' i think yes!!yes!!there is!the only thing that you can do is....search!and search carefully!!don't desperate!!!!go out and be yourself!!!i am sure that you can find a good guy that he loves you and likes you more than you think....try to find sb who understand your problems....and he is funny!!!so go outside and search!!!
good luck!!!!!
- kangaLv 51 decade ago
Hi, I'm bleakly amused as I'm thinking the same thing about women!! So if you get a good answer I'll be interested!
I Hope there is someone out there! :)
Good luck with the search!
- sammyLv 61 decade ago
Yes i believe that there is someone for everybody we just have to give it time and meet the right person one day it will happen to you when your not even thinking about it..