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what do you think i should do?

Update:

So, my boyfried and I have been dating for a while now and I will admit that we both have had our ups and downs. Lying and whatnot, but thats was agreed to all be in the past. Smoking was an issue last December, and was promised to me that he would quit. I caught him lying to me about it several times, and he has promised me that it wouldnt happen again. i have realized that smoking is a hard habbit to stop, so I have givien him the benefit of the doubt, but what hurts is the lying. Earlier this week, I found a pack in his jaket, and was surprised to see them in there because he said that he would make a better effort to quit. well, I found yet another pack in his jacket today, and what Im really pissed about its that he lied to me about them. i have told him over and over that smoking isnt the issue now, its that you lie to me, but he doesnt seem to get it. I noticed that some money that was left on the table was missing, and he said he took it just in case he needed it he lied again

Update 2:

and bought another pack. Now when i try to confront him with all this lying, he starts to bring up the past. To me it seems like he doesnt want to fess up to his wrong doings, but its getting harder to trust him now bacause of all this.....

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  • 1 decade ago
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    You sound suprised that he lied when you already said that you BOTH lied to each other. I fail to see a problem other than you not giving him any consideration for being stuck in a VERY tough to break habit (smoking) You should be supporting him rather than forcing him to sneak around smoking behind your back. You're jumping him on the cigs. makes him feel even more guilty when he gives in to the cravings & makes him feel even worse about himself. Try a little understanding & if he still continues to smoke, kill him in his sleep. lol

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    1 decade ago

    If he is lying about that what else is he lying about? Maybe it is time you walk away and he will either see he really misses you and will do what it takes or it wasnt meant to be. Do you want to be with someone who would lie to you just over a pack of cigs?!

  • 1 decade ago

    RUN now while you can!!

    And I can tell you are not going to, because I've been there. The best advice: hang out with your girlfriends more often and try to see the world that's out there waiting for you.

    *cheers*

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