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Do players ever settle down?

If so,is it when they are older and what makes them settle down??

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  • 1 decade ago
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    I think eventually because they get too old and most players only use their looks to play their partners. Because they don't' care about things like morals, values, and a deep connection with the other person they obviously have nothing else to offer to a relationship once the looks wear off.

  • 1 decade ago

    As an old player myself, I can say that the answer is yes. We often do.

    I can't tell you what makes most of us settle down other than to say that the chase just eventually stops being worth it, I can only tell you why I did. I got married for the first time at 45 and had a daughter pretty quickly. I settled down mostly for the child. What happens is that sometimes we daddies fall in love with our little girls.

    And you know what? There's no parent so vigilant as a reformed rake.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    well the man that I'm currently involved in is a hard core playa with a live in girlfriend. guess what I'm not his live in to make matters worse his 33. so maybe they settle down when their 50. not all guys are like this though. some are great and have no problem with commitment. I've also had boy friends who ready settle down at 23. so it really depends on the man. In my experience the playas are just their for you to have fun with and don't try and have a serious relationship with you'll just get hurt. If you want a commitment go for a nice guy.

  • Yeah, Players settle down (get married)....and then they're called Cheaters!

  • 1 decade ago

    players dont settle down. guys who are dogs will generally always be dogs. women too by the way. also if you have to ask that question about someone you are involved with thats a bad sign.

  • 1 decade ago

    yea players do chage when they feel they have found the right person i mean i used to be a player i mean i didnt go around and sleep with hella guys but i used to mess with their emotions but now im with my man we been togther for a year and i havent even thought about playing him so yea players can change it just takes that right person and it doesnt matter what age it just depends on when that certain person comes into your life

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Most of them, yes. I was going to venture to say that all of them do, but there are those rare exceptions, ya know? There's a song called "Fooled around and fell in love" that explains the whole process well. ha ha

    Hope I helped.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    eventually when they get older and it is the impact that the girl makes on them for them to settle down

  • 1 decade ago

    Yea.... they settle down with 'playees' ...

  • 1 decade ago

    once a player always a player

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