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I can't stop thinking about him! Is he my soul mate?

There is this guy who attended my college and he use to look at me alot, but i never looked back at him, while he was looking at me. But i so really like him, he's cute, smart and a gentleman. On Thursday i saw him in the library and wanted to approach him, but instead i just looked at some research books, just to be near him; he was looking at me all the time. But i was scared to approach him, so i left the library, on my way out the college i saw one of his mate and asked him, what is his mates name and he told me. Then i asked him if he was single and he said i need to ask his mate that. However on friday the guy i like approached me and gived me his number and told me that friday was his last day there at the college. He said that he would like me to text him later so we can have a chat, cause he really would like to get to know me, and really likes me. He's in London now and we have been texting and talking since friday and to be honest i can't stop thinking about him.

Update:

He says he feels the same way about me and he is saying things like; he wants to spend the rest of his life with me and he would love to make me his wife in the near future. We have alot in common and we share the same star sign. We can have a conversation for hours and love hearing each others voice. I get a funny feeling in my tummy when i hear his voice or see a text message from him; like butterflies in my tummy. My heart races when i see him and all i can think about is being with him. I do really like him, but i am not sure if this is puppy love or is he my soul mate? Please help me. Thank you very much.

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  • =P
    Lv 6
    1 decade ago
    Favorite Answer

    Why dot you just tell him you like him? Im pretty sure he likes you a lot too. I mean its very obvious from the fact that he's always looking at you! I dont know if he's your soul mate or not yet, but he's definately interested in you. Its too early right now to judge wheter you guys are going to last a long time or not. Anyway good luck with you guys if you do ever get into a relationship together!

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    idk but i am in the same fix up. There is a guy he is 3 yrs older than me and i really like him and i look at him and go out of my way to be next to him and his older brother says that i should ask him out because he likes me too . So I think that it is possible that he could be your soul mate and that if you wait much longer you will lose him

    Source(s): my head
  • 1 decade ago

    I don't think this means he's your soulmate, but he might be I suppose. this is a great part of a relationship, the we both like each other getting to know each other phase, sit back and enjoy!

  • onlyme
    Lv 5
    1 decade ago

    same thing happened to me just last week but now the guy doesn`t seem remotely intersted,try calling instead of texting,it`s better

  • 1 decade ago

    Chances are he's not your soulmate!!

    However your'e clearly smitten with him - so if you want a delicious love affair and whatever if anything it leads 2- then indulge -safely!

    Xx calypso

  • 1 decade ago

    I think you should tell him if he can come back for a visit and then ask him if he wants to be your girlfriend.

  • 1 decade ago

    it is merely LUST

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