Why is it that as soon as you move on with someone new the person who broke your heart tries to come back?

actually the problem is with men....initially girls are more emotional to a break up.....but when a long term relation breaks up.....its the guys get hurt a lot more times than the girls.

Since the guys have now analyzed that it will take time for another women to come to the comfort level he had with u.....they wanna get u back.

they get so emotionally hurt that they sometimes go suicide

ignore their calls or emails untill you feel really secure with your bf, you might even ask him if he thinks its ok if you talk to them every now and then. And when you do talk to them, talk about your new boy, and how amazing he is! Dont hide your new guy from them if you do end up talking to them. But you can never get too serious with your ex's, because if you do that could spell disaster for your new and old relationships.

i dont know, but my bf was just like that, we had broken up and he didnt want to get back with me because he said he needed some time apart, as soon as some guy started talking to me, and asked me out, three days later my ex answered my message about something saying, how do you expect this to work out? and i know how he is, if he wants something, hell act like you want it so he wants it to, he will never come out and say i want this, so we got back together and i had to break the other gyus heart, personally i didnt care because i didt have feelings for him that strongly, its just that he was my friends boy friends best friend.

but yeah, moving back to the topic, its natural because they feel like if the cant have you no one should

Jealosy. They cannot stand that you are moving on with your life and feel they must have missed something in you that now they want to have. Blow em off.

because they want what they cant have thats how everybody is at one point or another

i dont know.. guys are weird like that.

happens to all of us! Guys suck!

they want what they cant have