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how do you know when it's really love??

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago
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    WELL SWEETIE WHEN U REALLY REALLY TRULY LUV SOMEONE U R WILLING 2 TAKE A BULLET 4 THEM SO 2 SPEAK. LAY UR LIFE DOWN 4 THEIRS. U THINK OF THEIR HAPPINESS BEFORE UR OWN HAPPINESS. THEY R UR #1 PRIORITY. OF COURSE UR CHILDREN COME FIRST BUT THEN IT'S THAT SPECIAL PERSON. WHEN U LUV SOMEONE, THEIR PAIN IS UR PAIN.

    NOW I'M WONDERING R U ASKING IF HOW DO I KNOW IF SOMEONE REALLY LUVS ME? IF THAT'S THE CASE THEN YOU'LL KNOW HE LUVS U BY HIS ACTIONS. DOES HE PUT U FIRST? DOES HE THINK OF UR HAPPINESS FIRST? DOES HE RESPECT U? DOES HE TREAT U GOOD? HAS HE TOLD U HE LUVS U? HIS ACTIONS WILL SPEAK VOLUMES ON IF HE LUVS U OR NOT.

    Source(s): I ONCE LOVED A GUY. WELL ANYWAY, I'LL GIVE U AN EXAMPLE OF WHAT I MEAN BY TAKE A BULLET 4 THIS PERSON. OKAY SO MY EX GOT INTO A HUGE FIGHT CUZ HE THOUGHT SOME GUY HAD COME ONTO ME AND I WAS CHEATING. I EXPLAINED THAT I WAS NOT CHEATING AND THAT THE GUY DID COME ONTO ME, BUT NOTHING HAPPENED. WELL HE DIDN'T BELIEVE IT AND SO HE GRABBED ME AND FORCED ME 2 TELL HIM WHAT APT. THIS GUY LIVED IN. I FINALLY GAVE IN AND A HUGE FIGHT ERUPTED. IT SHOULD HAVE ONLY BEEN MY EX AND THE IDIOT GUY RIGHT, BUT THEN THE IDIOT GUYS FRIEND JUMPED IN AND ME WITHOUT THINKING TWICE JUMPED IN AND TRIED 2 PULL THE INTRUDER OFF MY EX. I COULDN'T BUDGE THIS GUY, SO I WENT AROUND AND YANKED THE IDIOT GUY OFF AND THEN IT WAS ONE ON ONE AGAIN. I REALLY COULD HAVE GOTTEN MY A$$ KICKED, I MEAN I WAS REALLY LUCKY THOSE GUYS DIDN'T KICK MY A$$. THEN IF THAT WASN'T BAD ENOUGH, I LATER WENT 2 THIS IDIOTS APT. AND RIPPED HIS FRIENDS A NEW ONE!!!!!!! I SAID IF THEY TOUCHED ONE HAIR ON MY EX'S HEAD THAT THEIR WOULD BE HELL 2 PAY AND NO WHERE 2 HIDE. ACTUALLY THAT'S PUTTING IT NICELY. I WAS QUITE VICIOUS WITH MY WORDS. SO AGAIN I WASN'T THINKING ABOUT ME, OR WHAT HARM COULD COME 2 ME, I ONLY THOUGHT ABOUT PROTECTING HIM AND NOTHING ELSE MATTERED. THAT'S KINDA WHAT I MEAN WHEN I SAY LAY UR LIFE DOWN 4 SOMEONE. THAT'S WHEN U KNOW U LUV SOMEONE. I MEAN IF U HAVE CHILDREN, U WOULD LAY UR LIFE DOWN 4 THEM RIGHT? THAT'S WHAT I MEAN. HOPE THIS HELPED.
  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    OK, so umm me and my boyfriend have been going out 4 a while, a year, so I think it all depends on time,

    if it has been a while than lets say you can tell by how u feel, and if he just likes kissing and sex, move on, and by the way u feel, when every time u think of him it is like and immediate happiness overwhelms u and u get flutters[but that isn't mandatory] and when u get in trouble in class for staring at each other:) especially him.

  • 1 decade ago

    if its really love u wont have to ask, u will just know

  • 1 decade ago

    if you know all of that persons faults and you can bo ok with thier faults

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    i agree with lilshortykb23

    you won't have to ask this question, you'll just know.

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