what do you do whaen yur boyfriend is immature and needs to be more responsible?!?

I tell him who's boss and if he wants to be holding my hand anymore he better be more mature. Let him know you really mean buissiness so that he really will become more responsible.

Remember women mature faster than men! Have you talked to him about how you feel? If so and he doesn't care or doesn't want to change then maybe you need to make a change and move on. When someone is always making decisions you don't agree with then you need to reevaluate the whole relationship. It's hard when you really care for or love someone, but remember you are the only one that can make you happy. If him being immature and irresponsible bothers you, then you need to make a decision either deal with it or move on. Life is to short to spend it with someone you are not completely happy with.

The crazy thing about humans is that men will always be more immature than they should be and women will always think that they alone can change their man. It won't happen. A man will not grow up until he's ready. Either wait around for him, or leave, maybe the timings just wrong.

Well, it's not really a good idea to try to change him as he might leave you for being too pushy. My advice would be to help him make his decisions and give him advice when needed. But not all the time cauz then he'll think that you think that you're a so-called-smart-***-*****.....

Agree with angflyboy86 or continue to have fun dating a 10 year old.

well before you got involved with your bf you know already (more or less) his attitude...It is a matter of acceptance, be honest to him, tell you feelings and discuss the matter with him...You may not able to change him but you have given him a chance to explain his side. who knows its just a matter of misunderstanding.

or You are expecting too much from him.

Try to listen....

hello {feeling alone}

I get the idea by your questions you have picked a low life and your to good for him why dont you get some one who can make you happy it makes for a more rewarding/ happy life

and then maybe you pet name on here will be {happy at last}

good luck

It's not fair to try to change people. If he's not ready to be an adult and make good decisions, then you need to find someone who does.

tell him that he needs to either grow up and accept some responsibility or that you two are over

It is hard to change people, been there. Just be frank with him and tell him the truth, if he really cares about you then he'll change for you.