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what if you really love this guy, but he is so irresponsible?

i love my boyfriend. but he is sooo irresponsible he is 4 yrs older than me and i am more mature than him. we dated for 3 months and i broke up with him and stay apart for 4 months then we got back together in May but i dnt kno if i wanna keep deaaling with it. i really do love and care about him but i have been putting up with it for awhile and he said he was trying to change but he doesnt seem to be making any progress

Update:

please answer i think i need to end it but idk!

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago
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    The strong feelings you have for him will lessen over time, so go with your instincts and end it now. You already know this is the best decision, so do it now. Waiting will just make things more difficult for you. I have a friend who just went through this and is getting better everyday and is now seeing someone new who truly love her and treats her well - very mature and responsible.

  • 1 decade ago

    Irresponsibility is a big turn off for me so.

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