should i talk to him??

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ok theres this guy who i slept with which was a mistake but me met over the phone n talked for like a month then we slpet together and now im pretty sure im pregnant with his kid.. but i quit talkin to him because after 2 days he was following me to work telling me who i could talk to he gravved me by the throat because i made him mad this is after 2 days of hanging out with him...so he found out i was pregnant and he says if this is his kid he wants a part of its life well im scared of him?? should i talk to him and let him be a part of its life?? i havent talked to him since january when i found out..yes i admit ive also made a mistake here so please dont be rude..

Update:

ok i said please dont be rude... it doesnt matter my age and i dont believe in abortion..he was very controlling and i dont have enough room on here to tell the whole story so if you cant give advice instead of being rude then dont answer my question...

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

I would get rid of him.  If he is violent with you what makes you think that he would not be violent with the baby also?  No guy should be grabbing you by the throat no matter what he's pissed off about!!!  I would not take any chances with a guy like that.

Anonymous · Answer

Okay so this guy grabbed you by the throat, but wants to be part of you babys life. You kow what to do Run like hell and dont look back.  Dont expose your children to this psycho.

systematicalf · Answer

Think of your child. S/he will want to know whose its father is. 

Give the dad a chance to step up. You need to work out plans NOW. Since you guys aren't together anymore you will need to draw up custody papers that say how much a part of the babies life he is allowed to have, child support, medical decisions...and so on.

WHO-DEY!!! · Answer

When did u find out u were pregnant? If u haven't had the baby yet i think u should get an abortian.

Mee! · Answer

Hey
How old are you?
Dude just do whats good for the kid

Anonymous · Answer

I won't be rude Honey,,,but if this is his child then he does have rights.....Just be careful of him because he sounds a little controlling...

Anonymous · Answer

grab u by the throat and u did not call police? prepare for more...

Anonymous · Answer

give the child to him!

Cryptic · Answer

How old are you?

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