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i don't know what to do?

i have been friends with 1 friend since 3rd grade. now she says to one of my really close friends that i follow her around and the only time i go by her is at lunch. she says that during the onoly class i have with her she says i always try to go by her. so not true! she has been acting like this since she met a new friend like 1 month ago. what should i do?

Update:

also, she has done the same thing to my close friend last year.

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  • 1 decade ago
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    Hello I guess I am always stuck on communication. talk to her you deserved to be given an explanation.What strucked me was she tells one of your really close friends that you follow her around, seems to me she wanted you to hear that. Maybe something is going on that you are not aware of but it bothered her, and so now this is her immature way of getting back so that maybe you will approach her. School and no other place is appropriate to discuss this the two of you need to be alone .Maybe you could ask her if the two of you could talk either at her home or yours And to show each other respect while talking remembering what the two of you have that has kept you friends since 3rd grade I hope it ends well for the two of you, the both of you have invested a lot of time in this friendship don't throw it away before trying very hard to fix it .

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Hi sounds like she is really insecure to be talking to others like that about you.

    Maybe you try ignoring her and walk about with self pride and don't even try to act like she means anything to you and hook up with other friends.

    Game players like this are not true friends anyway,she will get over it ,OR ask her straight what is your problem??ciao ♥

    Source(s): Life experience
  • 1 decade ago

    You should leave her alone for a couple of days and if she stills keep on saying stuff like that than she not really kind of a good friend and you are way better than that.

    Or

    You can talk to someone very close to you and see wat they say.

    Source(s): From being a big sister
  • 1 decade ago

    Talk to her, if you value her friendship, sit down with her and talk it through. Ask her why she has this perception of you, and tell her that you value her friendship.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    talk to her face to face about it asking whats going on, why shes changing. it sucks how other people can change someone you really care about but talk to her before its too late!

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