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Get ten points!!! I need help on some guy trouble with love... Pleeaase Help!?
Ok heres my dilema: Theres this guy that I like at my school, well one day we were playing this truth game and I asked him if he liked me.. he said yes, I've had a crush on you since the beginning of the year... Now we text each other and hang out all the time... He's always texting me "I love you and I want a kiss right now", stuff like that... the other thing is he's always calling me his babe and saying that he's lucky to have me... I like all of this, but yesterday he's like "so your dad thinks we're dating, lol"... he hasn't asked me out yet!... I don't get it, he's always telling me how much he loves me but yet we're not dating... What should I do?... and Why do you think he's acting that way?
He has asked a girl out before... back in October he was dating his best friend, a girl named Stephanie... thats whats even more confusing... I think he has guts... IDK... What do u think?
I definetly know he likes me.
O, and the other thing is I feel like he's the one... I definitly em not going to just give up on him.
12 Answers
- Anonymous1 decade agoFavorite Answer
Oh my, that's crazy. I think you should just come out and ask him what is between you guys. Make him come out and just say it. Ask him, so what exactly is going on between us. The longer you wait, the more complex it will get. Don't let him text you such intimate stuff unless he is ready to make a committment. It's like he wants to eat his cake and have it too. He has you there and can flirt, but doesn't want to committ and stay single. I suggest you ask...but it does seem like he likes you!
I'm having some boy trouble too...plz answer my question thx!
- Anonymous1 decade ago
Well, he talks to you like you guys are going out, calls you his babe and says how lucky he is to have you. Sounds to me like he thinks you guys are dating. He just skipped a really important step for you. Maybe he is waiting for you to ask him or thinks that since you all are doing everything dating couples do that he doesnt have to ask. My suggestion is to have one of your friends go him like they are just wondering and ask if you and him are dating...then you will know what he is thinking about the relationship. Guys are so confusing sometimes.
- 1 decade ago
Shadow Technique. He comes closer, pull away. He pulls away, remind him your still around - and desirable. Guys love the chase. Make it a little hard for him, if he is feeling comfortable with where things are at he will stop trying.
He should ask you out, no - he should TAKE you out. If I could tell this guy one thing it would be this: "do work son." If he doesn't "do work" then you should drop him- you ladies gotta get what you deserve. Don't give him the satisfaction of knowing he has you waiting for him.
- 1 decade ago
Fist off my name AIN'T "BABE", and second...no one knows what LOVE is until their 40..usually. By then they've already been married a divorced twice. This kid don't LOVE you, he may like you, and he may think himself LUCKY to have a nice girl like you. But insist on backing off the idea that ya'll are a couple...at least until he has a car/money to take you out on a REAL date (pending Daddy's permission) I bet him and Stephanie wern't really DATING, like you said they were FRIENDS (that hung out) some guys consider that dating (only the immature ones)
- Anonymous1 decade ago
I have a feeling that he's experiencing other people before you know, settling down with a girl aka YOU. Give him some time. I think he truly digs you and well just ask if he wants to go watch a movie and please don't give yourself up. I can't stress that enough into my kids mind. Any way keep me posted and I wish you the best of luck
- 1 decade ago
First of all why would you WANNA wait on someone like this, it's obvious if he really loves you then he woulda asked you out by now. I for one feel like boys like this are just playing mind games. You need to find someone else
- Experto CredoLv 71 decade ago
I think that YOU should ask him out on a date and take command of the relationship
- 1 decade ago
he dusnt want to make it official !
does he tell ppl tht u r his gurlfriend n stuff ?...if he dusnt then hez with u just for kicks or sth ,,,,,he likes u but at the same time he is trying to maintain his distance frm u ! ...u shld either talk to him about th whole thing if its bothering u ,,,,or just let it go if he keeps on acting th way he is right now .
- Anonymous1 decade ago
take the lead, ask him to to take you to some party. he may think you will not go out with him its not uncommon for a guy to feel that if he asks he will be rejected by a beautiful popular girl
Source(s): life - Anonymous1 decade ago
I think hes playing you around, but just to make sure why dont you ask him out 1st?