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I'm worried and miss my dad?

My dad is 46, i hadn't seen him in a while, but i saw him today for christmas.

I love him so much, but it was kind of awkward (because we hadn't seen each other in over 3 years) i want him to know i love him.

He doesn't seem like he's in very good health. He doesn't make a lot of money, and he live's with other poor people in a YMCA type of place downtown

I'm very worried about him and i want him to be my dad again.

How do i talk to him if we're both not comfortable around each other..

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  • 1 decade ago
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    The only way to become comfortable with each other is to spend time together and get to know each other again. Then you will be able to talk to him about serious things and have a real relationship with him. Tell him that you miss him and want to spend more time together. Sometimes the kids have to take the first step. Good luck

  • 1 decade ago

    U can't get Comfortable in days or time. Not taking any effort, u are stil gona be far like how u are now..

    Try to contact him frequently now. Then slowly tey to meet up outside. Next step, go to his house where he lives.

    Then slowly see if ya can get a apartment and live together.

    (You have to show ya dad that u love him and u are his flesh)

  • 1 decade ago

    Confronting would be the best solution, but if you absolutely cannot do that then tell a relative and have them talk to your father. If you call your dad once a week on the phone it will strengthen your relationship, tell about your problems and eventually work your way up to telling him how you feel.

  • 1 decade ago

    You aren't comfortable with him because you haven't seen him in 3 years. If you see him more often, you'll become more comfortable with him. No time like now to make things better. Good luck!

  • 1 decade ago

    Tell him whats in the past stays there, tell him you love him and want a relationship with him.

  • 1 decade ago

    thats a hard one.

    call him or something. or try and get closer.

    ♥

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