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I need a girlfriend can someone please help?

I am 16, never had a girlfriend, never gone out on a date because i am afraid of rejection. and well never even had a first kiss. I can talk to girls easily but i don't think they would like me cause well, i am sort of ugly.

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago
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    hey, i have felt like this too infact its why i didnt go on a date until i was 23 and that was my first kiss too. i thought i was ugly and all that so i never tried, because i didnt want the embaressment and fealing of failure if they laughed at me. i really liked this girl but thought that there was no way she would like me. she was gorgeous like super beautiful! and so smart and funny and just perfect so after our first date i thought there was no way id ever see her again. she is now my wife and im happier than ever.

    the thing is that we have a worse oppinion of ourselves than anyone else ever could, and it doesnt mean its true!!. the best thing i ever did was thought to myself well she wont be interested in me so f**k it im just going to be me and have fun.

    it turns out that the you inside is what they really love to see. and i think if you really just be yourself and try and relax, take charge and give it a go, you will be surprised. remember she is nerveous too!.

    and most of all a wise man once told me that to try and fail is to win, to fail to try is a true mistake.

    p.s. ASK KELLY FOR HER NUMBER SHE SOUNDS NICE!

    lol

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Alot of girls don't just go for guys with looks, not everyone is so shallow and superficial. I'm 15 and personally I'd take a guy who has a nice personality and sense of humour over a guy with looks anyday, everyone gets "ugly" as they get older and appearances can change yet personalities and beliefes often stay the same, If that makes any sense to you.What you should be doing, rather than thinking bad about yourself and worrying what girls think, just go out there and have a good time, have some confidence,the fact that you can talk to girls easily improves your situation alot, but don't be afraid of rejection, if you like someone let them know, you never know they could feel the same way but also be afraid of rejection, the right girl will come along eventually.

    Good luck.

    Kelly.

    x

  • 1 decade ago

    what? two choices sit in your room and think that you are never going to get a girlfriend because you are ugly. Or go out and find someone you like and tell her from the bottom of your heart that you like her. It is worth a try, trying is better than sitting down in ur room full of negative thought. good luck. Don't expect the girl to tell you that she likes you, you have to tell her, break that spell you are a man brother. Good luck.

  • 1 decade ago

    Everyone should have confidence on himself!

    We uniqe in this world. Just try!

    If u really so shy,u can try to make friends with girls on-line.

    This is a good way, cause I am in the same situation and I find this quite useful. www.interracialloving.com is my favorite,u can try this too.

    Good luck!

  • 1 decade ago

    Work on your appearance. Go work out, have good skin, and gain some confidence. Then go ask girls out. You'll get rejected a lot, everyone does, but you'll find someone that likes you.

  • 1 decade ago

    who needs looks when you got the personality? personality is most important to a girl. if you can make her smile from her heart then you have it all. don't force yourself to just go out with anyone. find someone whom you like, then build a comfortable relationship with her. confess your feelings(not your love). if you get rejected, learn to accept it and make sure you guys won't be feeling awkward. don't try to avoid her, just do everything you would normally do.

    good luck!

  • 1 decade ago

    more girls than you think dont care about looks but they look for sweet, funny, and caring guys who make them feel special so if you can do that it just takes time to make the right connection

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    yes ,i had the same problem just like you a few days ago .At last ,i found a gooa place -------interracialloving,to find my boyfriend.He is so great,we are very happy now.wish you a good luck

  • 1 decade ago

    don't worry baby u live in india . i2 live in india we can be friends or if ilike u i can be u're g. freind we can chat my id is

    chddisonikudi@yahoo.com .n meet somewhere someday

  • 1 decade ago

    why your worring i am 15 and i am ready to be your girlfriend

    do u want to chat with me so chat with me at sweettabassum_4u

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