if everyone around you is telling you that a particulare guy really famceys you but you cant see it...?

your not stupid you just havent given any attention to the matter. i have people tell me the same thing at times and i havent realized it because i didnt want to. sometimes i can be so oblivious of my surroundings. especially if im focusing on something else. just cause someone fancies you doesnt mean you need to exercise anything back. sometimes its just nice and flattering to know. but if you have feelings for that person then maybe its a good thing to know. :)

Probably just means you are being modest!

When I was younger I used to insist that no guys fancied me, even when my friends were telling me so-and-so was half in love with me...its a confidence thing because when I look back on it now, my friends were probably right!

When you are feeling more confident you will pick up on these things but if you feel quite insecure it is harder to pick up on them because you dont feel as if it could be true. Probably your friends are right.

You are not paying enough attention. If everyone else sees it then it is most likely the case.

Well, why don't you look at this for what it is...ok?

Would you want to be his girlfriend, and therefore have a woman that he is hitting on, asking this question on Yahoo Answers? I wouldn't give this crud one minute of your time.

You are giving a scum way too much credit when in fact he is demonstrating to you, what a cheat he is. Raise the bar higher for yourself honey.

Or maybe you are reading the signals right and others are not.

You can tell when someones into you and if he is really sending singnals and you can't see them then you aren't interrested anyway

no you do see it you just dont want to make it to obvious that you know.....at least thats how i act some times around certain ladies :)

no no it's just talks what you do is you don't even think about him until YOU feel that he wants you or else you'll end up hurting yourself

if everyone else sees it but you than its true........ trust me, ive been in the exact situation and everyone else was right.

if u cant see it then its fake