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My brother is very unstable...how can I help him?

My brother is 21 years old. He lives at home with very loving...yet slightly over protective parents. He's so unstable...nobody knows which Scott they're going to be dealing with. He goes from being happy and joking around and laughing...to SCREAMING at everyone telling my dad to shoot him and call the cops on him if he wants him out of the house, he smashes his cell phone and slams doors, he grabbed my mom by the hood of her sweatshirt and pulled her backwards up the stairs, he slams doors constantly. He's just so up and down. I'm scared for him and my family. He's having a very difficult time right now. His truck is broke down and he just got layed off. I don't know if he's really depressed or if he has a mental problem. It's to the point where nobody wants him to live there anymore because all he does is freak out on us and make everyone's life miserable...until he's the good Scott and playing with his little brother and laughing at the Simpson's movie. Please help.

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago
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    Try and get him to see a doctor. Sounds like he is depressed but also a bigger problem that might need medication. The last thing your parents should do is kick him out - that may send over the edge and he could do some real damage to someone or himself. Take some steps to protect everyone when he is not the real Scott - go out or leave him alone.

    Just remember, he isn't trying to hurt anyone he has an illness.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Tell your parents to kick him out! WHY would they put up with that. I understand it is their son but he needs to understand responsibility and grow up. If everything is just handed to him he will never learn. Let him do things for his self and I think he will appreciate his parents a lot more and understand all that they do. Then he might change!

  • 1 decade ago

    i dont know how you get him to do it but sounds like he needs some kind of profesional help i was the same way all my life i did it and it helpped try looking into anger management

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