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Who's wrong?

This is kinda long...

I met this guy, he seemed really nice. I slept in his bed. He wanted sex, but I said no. I stopped sleeping in his bed, but still chilled with him. When I visited him one day we were talking and he said some things that I felt were insulting, so I told him so. He said he didn't care so I called him an ******. Then he kicked me out. The next day I told him that it was okay because he was going through some stuff. He then began to be rude again so i told him I can't talk to him for long periods of time because he becomes rude. Now when he sees me he says hello and smiles, we hold little conversation, nothing major. One day when I asked him if I could have some of a snack he had, he snapped and asked me why i was talking to him because he hasn't seen me in months & we weren't even friends. I was in shock, so I haven't talked to him in awhile. Who do you think was wrong in this situation?

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  • 1 decade ago
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    I believe both of you made some not so smart desicions and had poor word choicing at times.

    You: Once he snapped the first time.. you should have just let it go peacefully. your better off without his attitude and even better not giving him your energy. You callin him an ****** wasn't the best choice but its understandable since you were probably upset. After the "episode" he created you should have realized that he was a bit "extra".

    Him: Snapping is a cowardly action. It shows you dont have enough self control to address the situation the right way. Making a statement about not being friends was way uneccesary. And rudeness between friends is never tolerable.

    Instead of worrying about who was wrong.. try to worry about what to do from here. Are you willing to deal with his off the wall actions? Or is his association worth it?

  • It's called "domestic violence" or "dating violence." Get the heck away from him as fast as your legs can carry you. No one has the right to be demeaning, insulting, etc., toward you for ANY reason. A common quote is, "There's no excuse for abuse." HE'S the one in the wrong. The bed thing is kind of iffy, but he still has no right to try to force you to do something you're not comfortable with. Just don't get yourself in that type of situation again.

  • 1 decade ago

    he's wrong for being rude when you refused to have sex, snd you're wrong for talking to him after he's been rude with you. Don't be chocked, and stop talking to him at all, even if he says hi the most long sentence that you can say will be hi, or nothing

  • 1 decade ago

    He's a jerk and not worth wasting your time with. Pretty simple, really. Just get over it and leave that guy, don't ever talk to him again. He was wrong, not you. If that guy was in the right mind, why would he say/do those things to you? He's obviously a big jerk and he might even be on drugs that's why he's acting that way.

    Just don't talk to that idiot ever again.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    you slept with him but no sex

    okay that wasn't smart

    let me clue you in

    in you are in a bed

    with a guy

    he want sex

    period...

    and if you do no give him any..

    he will dump you and find it elsewhere

    hence why he made the comment

    we are not friends..

    indeed you never were

    you were possibly sex that might turn into a relationship

    nothing more

    do not read any more into this

    you've learned your lesson

    now move on

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    His conduct is born out of a sense of frustration for the denial of sex. Quit him, if you do not want to yield to him.

  • 1 decade ago

    He is wrong. Do not insult urself by talking to that son of a *****

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    First of all when u sleep in a mans bed sweetie what do you expect. it sounds like you started this problem.

  • 1 decade ago

    What kind of snack was it?

    Was it pretzel rods? I love pretzel rods, and would not let them go either.

  • 1 decade ago

    Your both rong, you send mixed messages and he is just an ***. maybe bipolar but sounds weird.

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