plz help!! bff or crush??

you have to talk to your best friend first and see how she would feel about the whole situation. You don't want to be considered a beack stabber and lose your best friend over some guy would you? Explain to her that you really like him and how you feel. Then hopefully she'll understand.

I Have Been In This Situation Before!

I Would Call The 'Bff' And Tell Her, If She Gets Angry Over It Tell The Guy That Your 'Bff' Likes You As Well And You Don't Want To Fall Out With Her Over It, If He Never talks To You Again Your Screwed So Maybe If It Was Me Would Tell The Guy Exactly What You Have Wrote Up There ^ :]

Good Luck!

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Briony From The UK!

Ask yourself if you will really like him in three months or less. If the answer is no, then you should email this guy your bff's email address and say,"I really like you as a friend, but I don't think I would ever be able to be in a committment. But I think my bff would."

If the answer is yes, then ask your bff if she would be okay if you dated him. If she is hurt, then drop the guy. Bffs are around you forever, but you only know guys for approximately six months before breakup.

well...sit down and talk 2 ur

friend about it. try 2 see how

she would feel 2..and dont 4get

this boys feelings 2. if u do go

out w/ him then thts great and ur

bff may be upset, but if shes really

ur bff then she wont hate u. maybe u

should wait a bit and explain the situation

2 ur crush/soon 2 be bf tht way hell no

wats goin on and wont get any wrong

signals from u.

Honestly before you tell this guy that you like him and wanna go out you should really tell your best friend first. I know it is going to be hard, but it would really hurt her in the long run to find out that you did it behind her back. Plus if she is really your best friend she will not let a guy stand in between your friendship! Good Luck... I wish u the best of luck! ;)

I think you need to go for it. You need to have a talk with your bff and let her know how you feel about this guy.♥♥

talk to your friend about it

if he obviously likes you, and you like him back, go out with him

because even if you know you will upset your bff, but if the same situation happens all the time, are you gonna give u everytime?

tell your friend your sorry if you do go out. don't let your bff stop you from going out even if she or he is SOOO important

I have been in a stickey situation like this! I told my friend and she was surprisingly O.K with it!!! I don't know your friend but if she doesn't get all of the guys she wants and gets rejected a couple of times I'm sure she'll be fine with it! But if she gets all of the guys she wants she might get a bit upset!

Hope I Helped!

This is really tough as much as a lot of people say you have to be there for your friends you always have to remember to follow your heart. If I were you Id tell my friend about the sitution and id try to be as nice as I can. I would tell you to be there for yourself and say yes to this gut. Its nice that you thought it over before you said yes because it shows that as much as you like him you really wanna be there for your friens which is really nice and generous of you. Do want you think is best and remember be true to yourself and do what's best for u!

I guess it really depends on how your best friend will react and if she's KNOWN that you liked him way before she did.

If you think that you and him going out will crush her, I'd leave him be.

But if you think she'd understand, then go for it.

The worst thing to do would be to hide it from her.