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All that mushy stuff w/ my BF?

Ok so I am dating this guy and I really like him, and i want to take our realationship to the next level but unlike my last boyfriend, he doesn't say anything like you look so beautiful or theres no way u could ever look ugly. And when we were at school and it was the candy cane sales, i sent him 1 that said to, his name here, from your girlfriend and his just said to maddie from mitch. AND, he doesn't like to slow dance. Is he like insecure or does he not like me or what cause he like never says anything mushy to me.

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago
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    im sure that ur man is just shy. but if he doesnt seem shy around other friends that are girls than theres something wrong, u try to make the move on him like when he wears something that makes him look hot then tell him, wear something that will make him say the same thing. hoped ive helped.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    first of all, never take a boyfriend relationship to the NEXT level, you'll regret giving it up to someone who wasnt worth it. second instead of just wondering why dont u just ask him. sometimes many boys are not like that or find that mushy stuff completely irriatating

  • 1 decade ago

    He probably likes to be comfortable, not romantic. If you want that mushy stuff, than why don't you suggest to him, that you guys just want to be good friends. Just don't force him to feel uncomfortable around you. That would be the worst thing you could do...

  • 1 decade ago

    no, i don't think he's insecure. He just sounds shy. maybe he doesn't have that much experience and hes afraid. Don't push him to hard. make him confortable and just act normal and your self around him. he may come out of his shell. GOOD LUCK :]

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    he kind of sounds like a jerk.

    maybe he just wants what you have for him.

    if he's quiet, maybe he's shy and you'll have to say the mushy stuff first for him to open up.

    or... if he's not shy... he's a jerk!

    xxx

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    ask him, be like, i love you baby. and if hes not saying anything back them be like, whats the matter. if he just doesnt want to say anything than their is nothing that you could do about it.

    but good luck!

  • 1 decade ago

    Maybe he's just not that kind of guy, or just not comfortable with it.

    You can't force him to be like that if it's not his nature.

    If you really like him, like him for who he is.

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