My best friend has FWB that she meet online?

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My b/f has a FWB she claims they are not serious but wouldn't mind if it did became serious. both of them have been divorced for less than a year. She meet him on AFF about 5 months ago. Here the thing. They talk on the phone for at least an hour every night. She see him at least twice a thou the week and once on the weekend, they go out to the movies, dinner or just sit around his house watching movies or partying with him and his friends, Everytime they see each other out somewhere he always gives her a kiss. Like last week she had a flat tire w/no jack so this guy and his buddy showed up changed her tire and he gave her a huge kiss before he left. She has even told me that when they go to the movies or are at his house watching tv that either he will hold her hand or put his arm around her. IS this normal for a friend with benefits to act this way? This weekend is met his Aunt and some of his cousins. But he will not allow her around his 3 kids?

Update:

I said my best friend not my boyfriend

Update 2:

She has also just found out that she is 3 months pregnant and she has not been with any other guy but him

cOVagUrL · Accepted Answer

yea FWB has lost its context here...he's starting to act like her man...but the kids thing is understandable....you shouldn't introduce your kids to a women unless your serious..and visa versa...its too much on the kids if you break up suddenly

Anonymous · Answer

Sure. Friends with benefits just means they want a relationship, but want to pick and choose which parts they want. The closeness is something he wants, the commitment isn't (at least yet). He doesn't want to introduce her to the kids if they're not having a serious relationship, and I don't blame him.

He might be considering asking her out properly, so it's not like he's taking advantage of her or anything, but he has to think more carefully than other people because he has kids involved.

pinky · Answer

There is no need to introduce her to young kids (assuming they are young) unless they are serious; it is just too confusing for children to meet every person a divorced parent dates. 
They've already had their parents separate and don't need any more of that.

trixxi_fan · Answer

Lucky girl....he sounds like a normal guy to me.   You've got to respect a guy that looks out for his kids.  You need to find one like him, he sounds perfect.

Update:  You sound worried that you might be loosing a best friend.  You should be happy for her as you will be making a new friend as well.

Anonymous · Answer

Are you serious?

Your BOYFRIEND has a FRIEND WITH BENEFITS?

Is it just me, or do you only "call on" this "friend" when your single?

Girl! Get out of this relationship! He obviously has no respect for you!!

You deserve soo much better hunny.

robert L. · Answer

i think this is just plainly a friends with benefits senario,. haha

? · Answer

he just doesn't want his kids or her to feel awkward if they met :]

but that surely sounds more than just friends ;]

newglassman · Answer

does it relly matter what you call it?

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