Ladies are you interested in a guy who has a job, a car, an apartment in Orlando, FL but is heavy?

I get tired of people trying to get opinions on whether or not they can get a woman or a man if they are fat. WHO CARES!!! If you can't find someone that can like and eventually love you for WHO YOU ARE.. then don't mess with them. If you like to eat or you are pre destined to be big (IE your whole family is big) then OH WELL!

Listen, find someone that likes you for who you are. You are a hardworking man, holding down his own, then you need to find a woman that will like you for that regardless of your weight. Unless you plan to change your lifestyle and get on a diet, and exercise every day and work to loose your weight to get a girl then go ahead. Just know that if a girl is dating you because you are skinny then if you gain the weight back, she will leave you if she's not attracted to that.

I'm a big girl myself. Not HUGE but big. And my bf is big. I used to be that skinny girl only into skinny men, but after having my baby it changed my heart and now instead of getting my heart broken by those skinny, conceited guys I have a great bf that loves my daughter as well.

Get over being big and find a open minded girl.

To the person above me, overweight does not mean they are lazy. I'm not in the least bit lazy but overweight. Same for my bf. Works hard and is not lazy......but big. Some people are just predestined.

Being overweight, for men, is usually a result of laziness, no motivation, no drive, and a sedentary lifestyle (in most cases, if you have no sickness that makes you overweight.) Women, at least sane women, are not attracted to those traits. Men don't have to have a perfect body, and some even go for a little huskier men, but if you are not healthy, that is certainly not attractive for a woman because that means that she will eventually have to take care of you and be a contributor to your habits. She wants to be taken care of and protected.

It's always been that way.

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Women treat fatties like lepers. Lose some weight if you want yourself an expensive sandwich artist.

(Secretly) I'm watching the answers to come ...what the gals have to say about the "heavy"... but I wonder, as I'm heavy... everything heavy...what's wrong? Thanks

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