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I need some help.. in my family n dating?

My family doesn't want me dating 'till I finish college. I know it's pretty extreme; but I didn't care. So now I'm in love with a guy who loves me back but we can't see each other 'cause of the rules...

I'm 15 by the way...

Any suggestion that I can use in this desperate situation???

And no I can't stop lovin him.. Love might just be a word but the feeling I feel for him is more than the word can ever mean.

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  • 1 decade ago
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    your parents don't want you making a mistake

    but not to date until you are out of college is very extreem

    talk to them and tell them that you think out of college is probably not possible

    if they dont budge

    you have to wait until you are 18 and get a job.. move out and make it on your own.. then when you are 24 you can go to college with grants.. that way you won't have to pay it back

    18 seems like a very long time

    if you really love this person and they feel the same way they will wait for you

    until then.. keep your grades high so you can get into a really good college

    until you turn 18.. try to see your guy as much as possible without dating.. like school functions

    see if parents will let you two study together.. not date

    good luck sweetie

  • 1 decade ago

    yea ive been down that road tell your parent's how you really feel about him and i know sometimes they'll not listen but give it time sit wiht them and tell them exactly how it feels and don't let them interupt you ok trust me and goodluck my dad was a hardhead goodluck girl and me too im turnin 16 in jan the 18th thank god 2 more years lol and don't stop lovin him follow your heart girl

  • mikk
    Lv 6
    1 decade ago

    Stick with the rules. Your parents are right. You are too young to date and ruin your life!!

  • 1 decade ago

    it s too early to u for judging ur real feelings. in ur age u r thirst to love but it may be only admiration...dating s not preferred coz it may lead to relationship including sex..

  • 1 decade ago

    know Exactly how you feel.

    as for what to do, I'm still trying to figure that out myself. but if I do figure it out, I'll pass on the info

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