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oo wow..but yea i have a problem with cutting myself.. and i dont know how to stop.. cause the love of my life left me after 2 years.. and he is the one that made me stop cutting 2 years ago.. and now when he left me i started up again.. what do i do

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  • 1 decade ago
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    go find him, and cut him instead!

  • 1 decade ago

    I very much understand how hard it is to get over losing an important relationship, dear, but cutting yourself is not a good way to handle that (and I can tell you understand that from your question). Aside from making new friends and getting support and encouragement from your current friends, you probably need to see a professional who can help you work through why you handle stress by cutting yourself, and find a better way to deal with things like this. I don't know your specific life circumstances, so I don't know what resources you have available, but I'm sure they are available. Please take advantage of them, as I'd hate to see you continue with such an unhappy way of dealing with stress.

  • 1 decade ago

    See a counselor, what you are doing is not ok even though you don't think its that bad in your mind, you don't use good judgment.

    I had a similar experience before and it is really scary to see or even know that someone you were with cuts, or cut themselves at one time, very scary and should be a red flag for you to get some therapy.

  • 1 decade ago

    I think that you should strongly consider seeing a counselor, cutting is serious condition and maybe part of the problem is that your still stuck in the relationship. Go out and try to find someone new.

  • 1 decade ago

    okay think about it. i know you think that cutting yourself makes you feel better but if you actually think hard, it really hurts you outside and in, you might also even get embarrassed about them. so next time you like think about doing it think twice and ask yourself why am i doing this? and this is hurting me! GOOD LUCK!

    Source(s): goooodd luckkk<3
  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    look i dont no how old ur but try to get professional help,if u stoped once u can do it again ,but do it foryour self this time,stop relying on a man.good luck

  • 1 decade ago

    tbh you have answered your own question...

    find someone you trust to talk to about it face to face or on the phone

    your mates will be able to help you far more than anyone else on a computer screen.

  • 1 decade ago

    You need to get help.

  • 1 decade ago

    you didn't stop cutting for yourself.

    you are the problem.

  • 1 decade ago

    get help!!!!

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