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My 3 yr old bites her nails all the time. How do I get her to stop?
I have a 3 yr old that has been biting her nails since she was 18 mos & now it's moved to biting her toes too. She also is constantly picking her nose to the point of making it bleed. Any advise, I have tried the reward system as well as punshiment but nothing has worked....Help!!!
Don't tell me to put anything on her nails because I've done that & it didn't work.
Let me correct myself, I won't put hot sauce on her fingers. I put the no bite & it didn't work. My dr told me to just tell her no, which I do & I hand her a tissue for the boogers hoping she would pick up this habbit with no avail.
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- ?Lv 41 decade agoFavorite Answer
Do you bite your nails? If you do o if someone close to er does this will cause her to pick-up the habit. My mother always bit her to the cuticles (disgusting, I know) and now I bite mine. I get them done at the salon and it stops me. = )
Anyhow, if she is seeing someone do it she will catch the habit as well as others. She is a mirror of her environment.
My daughter also picks her nose to the point that it bleeds. Do not punish her, that isn't going to help, it will only hurt her self esteem and emotions. Simply ask her not to and if you have to move her hand (gently of course) from her nose when you catch her doing it. Also, speak to the pediatrician because my daughter has to take antihistamines to keep her nose from bleeding, there may be something irritating it and she doesn't know what to do other than pick her nose.
I hope this information helps.
Good luck!
As far as what the other people are saying here DO NOT take things from your child as this is going to cause emotional problems and distrust of you to her. And puting spicy or other things on her nails... you never know what she may be alergic to and what may cause her to have acid reflux or tummy aches. Be careful!
Source(s): Being a mommy myself. = ) Contact me if you need anything. - 5 years ago
You may never stop her. My Mom was 60 when she finally stopped biting her nails. I never got the habit tho. It might be genetic. The official answer is "distraction." So I'd say hug her and make a lovey huggy game out of it. Get something super interesting like a book out. Crafts perhaps? I think perfection plays a role. A snag here and there? Color in the lines instead. Follow simple mazes perhaps. Buy sewing cards. paste things and make picture frames. Lookup craft ideas online. Kids this age like to sprinkle glitter too. Make beautiful things.
- Anonymous1 decade ago
To the first person to answer, putting hot sauce on the fingers is abuse-period! Just a guess, but you are probably one of the people who thinks spanking is abusive.
Tell your daughter not to bite her nails, if she continues tell her that you will spank her if she doesn't stop, and if she doesn't stop follow through with a spanking.
- 1 decade ago
if you haven't tried this you should because I've heard it helps alot of mothers
when you see her biting her nails take away something she loves and tell her unless she stops she won't get it back, wait a week or something and if she hasn't been biting give it back and simply see when or if she starts to bite again then repeat until she's become fully weined off, hope this helps..some!
- 1 decade ago
paint her nails and tell her that the paint is toxic, and that it could make her extremely sick if she puts the nail in her mouth. That should help with the nose picking thing too, i hope.
- Anonymous1 decade ago
I say put a bad taste on her fingers and toes and
- Anonymous1 decade ago
get some sour apple and put it on her finger nails. This should help break that habit.
- 1 decade ago
put something clear and bitter like vinegar on her nails so it tastes bad for her... then she wont do it anymore ive tried it with my sister
- Anonymous1 decade ago
tell her that its nasty and her feet been where other ppl feet where so she is licking there feet
when she wants food tell her to eat her boogers