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For the women out there, my sister is so mad at me. Any ideas how to get my sister to listen to me?

One time, my sister's husband came on to me and started touching me. My sister walked in on him and looked at me. I was disgusted with him, and my sister was, and still is, disgusted with me. He keeps trying to contact me, and my sister vows never to contact me. I love her, but she won't even listen to my side of the story. How do i get her to listen to me again??

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  • 1 decade ago
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    Keep trying to make contact with her...call, write, invite her over to talk....she will eventually accept your offer.

    Don't spend too much time trying to explain...she has chosen to believe husband and only time will show her the truth [he will get caught hitting on someone else].

    As for him contacting you, refuse all calls...let voice mail pick up. Don't go to her house [where lousy husband is].

  • 1 decade ago

    Your sister is mad of jealousy, she is thinking that you flirt with her husband...so she will not listen no matter how hard you try...(think of this possibilities) and maybe her husband has made his way first to weave lies to your sister about you so that she wont believe your statement against him.

    I'm just confused, how come he started touching you without your permission? when you can prevent him from doing it by simply moving away when he nears you...and when he keeps coming closer you can yell him to go off you. beware of the touch, guard yourself against it, or you will notice yourself later no longer resisting...and that's what your brother-in-law is waiting.

    women could easily be attracted to men with touch and caring words, likewise, men are by looks and smell...he is attacking/attracting (a woman's weakness) you by his touch.

    If you think your sister won't listen to you, go find someone (authority) where you can report such an abusive act...if she get mad with your report, tell her how much you are concerned with her and make her realize that if her husband did it to you (the fact that you are sisters), why not to other women? Your sister will be alarmed.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    That's a tough one. It may be that he told her you came on to him, and other lies which she believes. I would keep trying to contact her, preferably without lover boy knowing about it. You are probably not the only one, hon. He's probably hit on a lot of women.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    I wouldn't even try. I would be insulted that she took her disgusting husband's side.

  • 1 decade ago

    Well if her husband did it to you, he has done it to other's. He'll eventually get busted cheating then she'll know it was not you. Do you know of anyone else he did this to?

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