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ByouTfull asked in HealthWomen's Health · 1 decade ago

Do you worry if your partner thinks youre good at sex?

how do you become more outgoing in bed

how do you spice it up

do you compare your partner to past partners when it come to sex

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago
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    of course i worry a little.. but i dont let it get to me.

    if you're not your partner's first sexual partner.. then thats probably why you worry.

    i usually take my time to myself to think of how to spice things up.. like.. if you are someone who pleases yourself.. then when you're alone.. you can talk like you'd like to talk to your partner.. thinkin of him. (or her)

    if you're comfortable with toys in the relationship.. you can bring those into the relationship for some fun.

    try new positions.. new outfits.. new places..

    i think if you dont love your partner then you might compare.. but if you love them then you love what they do and dont (or at least try not to) think of you previous partners.

    well that was my p.o.v. and advice

    i hope this helps!!

  • 1 decade ago

    When we first became intimate I did worry because I had self esteem issues but he has really made me feel special and I have opened up in the bedroom and things are better than ever for the both of us. I used to compare guys but none of them could compare to this guy. I have tried things I never would have done in the past and I actually enjoy them and I actually have REAL orgasms now simply because I can relax and have fun without being self consious.

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